Don’t try to change so that someone else will love you. Change so that you can be more in love with yourself.
Discover something new about yourself. Try a new food, place, or type of music, see if you like it!
Pick one day this week to have a morning/afternoon/evening devoted completely to yourself.
Stop being so hard on yourself, grow from the experience and move on. Take a leap of faith. Do that thing that you’ve been afraid to do. Believe that you will succeed.
When you feel uncomfortable about something or someone, acknowledge it, don’t push it aside. Create boundaries.
Don’t spend so much time trying to work on and improve your weaknesses, that you forget to honor and appreciate your strengths.
Don’t bury your emotions, if you want to cry, cry, if you want to be angry, then be angry. Honor your emotions enough to feel them.
Tune out the people who like to tell you what you are and who you are. Discover those things for yourself.
Make a list of 5 things you love doing, and do them frequently. Integrate them into your daily and weekly life.
Look at the simple joys in your life, the things that you take for granted. Appreciate them with your whole heart.
Stop comparing yourself to others. You are beautiful and perfect just as you are.
Stay away from the people who add nothing but drama to your life. Send them on their way, you’ll be happier for it.
Acknowledge your effort. See that you have done your best, even if you have failed to produce tangible results.
Nurture your dreams, even if they don’t seem possible right now, it doesn’t mean they won’t ever happen. Reach for them.
Have a cup of tea in bed, relax, and read a good book.
Give yourself Sanctuary Time. Relax, meditate, or use oracle/tarot cards.
Make plans to watch the sunrise/set and let yourself bathe in the energy.
Pick a day this week to go to bed early or to sleep until you wake up naturally.
Before you go to sleep, make time to relax, unwind, and de-stress.
Write yourself a love letter. Have a love affair with yourself. Make loving you a priority. You deserve it.
Take a nice, hot, relaxing bath when you get stressed. It’s a great way to unwind.
You know that thing that happened that you occasionally still beat yourself up over? Let it go. Forgive yourself.
Take twenty minutes out of your day today to meditate. You can sit in silence, listen to a guided meditation, calming music, or whatever makes you feel zen.
See your mistakes as valuable lessons. Those mistakes deepen your wisdom.
Make today the day you push your own boundaries. Do something new-to-you, it can be something small like eating some place new, or something big like making fabulous travel plans.
Look in the mirror. Admire your face, your body, every inch of yourself. Love and accept all of you.
Wear something today that makes you feel confident and sexy. Develop your own sense of style.
Re-evaluate your spirituality. Are you happy with where you are and what you believe? Do something today to spiritually nourish yourself.
Go outside and get some sun. Watching the beauty of nature can be so healing and soothing.
Get a piece of paper, write down what ‘beauty’, ‘success’, and ‘love’ mean to you. Don’t ever let someone else change those definitions.
Choose today to stop apologizing for who you are. Be strange, wild, colorful, shy, quiet… whatever makes you happy!
Smile… even if you don’t like your smile/teeth/mouth whatever, smile anyway! Be proud to let your joy shine out.
If there’s something about your body that you don’t like, find something good to say about it right now!
Do something today to make your living space a little bit more sacred to you. Clean, redecorate, smudge, or create a special spot where you can sneak away to relax.
Pull out your calendar and pick a day in the next week to do something special just for you.
Go outside, stand on the earth, let your worries sink out of you into the ground.
Realize that it’s okay to ask for help when you need it. You don’t have to be or do it all. Asking for help doesn’t make you weak.
Take a few minutes today to sit in silence. Let the world rush on around you while you savor the moment and just be.
Pick one fear that you have, just an itty bitty one, and work on being unafraid.
Pay attention to how you treat your friends. Look at how you treat yourself. Make sure you’re being kind to yourself as well.
When you are angry or upset (with yourself or others) try responding lovingly and see how it changes the situation.
Stop focusing on the things that you aren’t and celebrate all of the AMAZING things you are.
Make boundaries, trying to please everyone will not make you feel nourished or happy. You’re allowed to say no!
Do some space clearing today, get rid of things you no longer physically, emotionally, or mentally, need.
Create a nourishing morning routine. Stretch, do yoga, journal, whatever makes you feel good.
Pick a day this week to cut your internet time in half. Unplug and read a book or work on an unfinished project.
Right now go find some new music to listen to. Be amazed by all of the great talent in the world.
Go shopping for something special for yourself. It’s okay to spoil yourself every once and awhile.
Don’t judge your beauty by the number on the scale. I guarantee you that you can be sexy and beautiful at any size.
Realize that you have control over your thoughts. If there’s a thought you aren’t liking right now, change it.
Watch what you say to, and about, other people. Create a loving atmosphere around yourself.
Give yourself permission to do nothing. The world won’t end if you aren’t busy busy busy.
Surround yourself with people who lift you up. You don’t deserve to be pulled down by other’s negativity.
Take a deep breath, feel it all the way in the pit of your stomach. Breathe deeply until you feel light and relaxed
Make sure that you only say sorry when you’ve actually done something wrong. Don’t constantly apologize for things that aren’t your fault.
Be okay accepting compliments from other people. You deserve them!
Don’t be afraid to celebrate your achievements, even the little ones, like getting out of bed on a really bad day.
Remind yourself that everything about you is sacred. You are a part of the Universe, the stars, the moon, the sun, don’t treat yourself as anything less.
Allow yourself to be in the present. Don’t worry about the future, don’t agonize about the past. Be in the here and now.
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Thank you for the needed reminders! Blessed Be, my friend.
Thank you for this…it was really timely. Blessing to you.
You should put these on a poster. A huge, humongous poster too outrageous to be allowed, and adorned with glitter and unicorns <3
Love your Self love list. Sibylle is right you should put them on a poster and sell them
thanku… it was really good.